tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post4705345832282511161..comments2024-03-29T02:16:16.447-05:00Comments on Ziggy's Blog: TEEN TRENDS - DATE RAPELaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06864977144460701741noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-49906409077487596192012-06-22T15:50:34.967-05:002012-06-22T15:50:34.967-05:00God Bless you for posting about these tough issues...God Bless you for posting about these tough issues to talk about. I was a victim of date rape myself. It happened when I was 22 and just before my last semester in college. It was by the guy I was "seeing." I felt very much like it was my fault because we had sex before, but this time I just did not want it. I told him to stop but he did not. I felt so hopeless and weak and it really messed with my mind!!!<br /><br />I did not tell anyone what happened for the longest time because I was supposed to be a good Catholic girl and was so afraid of what my parents (and God) would think of me having sex before I was married!<br /><br />I had suffered from depression and anxiety. It came to surface 8 years later when my husband and I were struggling in our marriage. Our only way of getting through this was for me to explain what happened. I went for therapy, my husband and I both got counseling...and part of my healing was to tell my family and friends about this. I HAD to or it would forever cause me pain.<br /><br />I am so thankful for my therapist and supportive husband...for without them, I probably would have ended up committing suicide or in a psychiatric center.<br /><br />My hope is for others to see that if they are going through this or any other traumatic event, they will find help in your post and see mine and realize that they can't hide from trauma like this. It must be dealt with or it will cause them suffering.<br /><br />Thank you again for this sounding board.<br />Sincerely,<br />ReneeReneehttp://resully.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-23551676598460985942011-12-20T14:38:25.731-06:002011-12-20T14:38:25.731-06:00Great post. Thank you for bring attention to this ...Great post. Thank you for bring attention to this very important, but often overlooked, form of sexual assault. I'm sorry that this happened to your daughter. I hope that she is doing well now. Getting the support you need after something like this happens is half the battle, so I'm glad to hear that she has such a supportive family.Worth-Waiting-Forhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00195459705161415635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-44475714694214292832011-10-30T08:27:37.628-05:002011-10-30T08:27:37.628-05:00iklan,
You just need to make sure your teens and ...iklan,<br /><br />You just need to make sure your teens and sister NEVER accept an open drink from anyone, even if it is a friend, since most of these drugs are colorless & tasteless & are slipped into someone's drink.<br /><br />Thanks for visiting!Laurahttp://ziggysblogs.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-29974814479769590922011-10-14T08:22:57.530-05:002011-10-14T08:22:57.530-05:00Thanks for sharing this. I'm from Malaysia and...Thanks for sharing this. I'm from Malaysia and first time heard about date rape drug "roofies" while watching "hangover 1". kind of worried because I have 4 teens little sister.iklanhttp://www.aposajo.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-70089943528143288392011-03-05T09:59:00.012-06:002011-03-05T09:59:00.012-06:00Visiting from SITS & saw the title on this one...Visiting from SITS & saw the title on this one - very powerful message, one I wish I'd learned before... mine wasn't a date, it was my soon-to-be-ex brother-in-law. 30 years later, I still wonder if there was anything I could have done to stop it. No there wasn't. Nothing. We are not the guilty one, they are.LBDDiarieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12095130599361379113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-69814918512683023562010-07-26T03:02:57.540-05:002010-07-26T03:02:57.540-05:00Thanks for highlighting this issues, it's so i...Thanks for highlighting this issues, it's so important. Unfortunately a lot of girls don't even understand that they have been raped, and it still causes a lot of psychological pain.Rachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00318376427752604367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-56797788956720978182010-02-27T10:11:00.274-06:002010-02-27T10:11:00.274-06:00thanks for blogging about this topic, it's so ...thanks for blogging about this topic, it's so important! we all know people that have been affected. <br /><br />Stopping by from SITS! Happy Sharefest!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-61441930930210885562009-12-28T18:14:23.828-06:002009-12-28T18:14:23.828-06:00Wow..... thank you for sharing this information. I...Wow..... thank you for sharing this information. It's heartbreaking that there are monsters out there that would do this.... <br />visiting from SITSBianca @ South Bay Rants n Raveshttp://southbayrantsnraves.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-90490829169899301582009-12-27T16:37:40.109-06:002009-12-27T16:37:40.109-06:00Visiting from sits. I was date raped & i'm...Visiting from sits. I was date raped & i'm glad you're passing this info on.Lil Ms Snarkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12738170180966368529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-38099046487020146352009-12-25T13:09:14.922-06:002009-12-25T13:09:14.922-06:00Thank you for sharing thourough information about ...Thank you for sharing thourough information about this disturbing trend.<br /><br />visiting from SITSA. Gamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00808057510960734254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-34110861196740539602009-06-08T13:23:30.205-05:002009-06-08T13:23:30.205-05:00Thanks for sharing this important information. It...Thanks for sharing this important information. It's a difficult but crucial topic to talk about.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04423802244845816945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-29970564907680114922009-06-05T14:03:19.408-05:002009-06-05T14:03:19.408-05:00Another wonderfully written article. I appreciate ...Another wonderfully written article. I appreciate the way you tackle tough teen subjects to help other parents!ParentingPinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02495585089502481794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-92173210060035065092009-06-03T10:00:06.359-05:002009-06-03T10:00:06.359-05:00Hi Laura - stopping by from SITS to visit and say ...Hi Laura - stopping by from SITS to visit and say hello. Pretty profound blog you have going on here! Great information. Mom's pay attention to this - it's been going on since I was in my 20s and I'm sure it hasn't gotten anything but worse.Mary | Deep South Dishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06030573009618096220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-65285797332136727342009-06-01T22:52:59.202-05:002009-06-01T22:52:59.202-05:00Very informative article. I saw your blog was men...Very informative article. I saw your blog was mentioned on GoodHousekeeping.com. Good for you!<br /><br />Cheers,<br />DeAnnaDeanna Lynn Slettenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15100075772877115586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-57320595415793378662009-06-01T10:52:02.042-05:002009-06-01T10:52:02.042-05:00Very good article!
I am so sorry that your ex abu...Very good article!<br /><br />I am so sorry that your ex abused the bible to justify sin...makes me so angry...Sarah Maehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15079648125245754566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-72556635485996305322009-05-31T20:47:19.269-05:002009-05-31T20:47:19.269-05:00Thanks for sharing this information. I have a teen...Thanks for sharing this information. I have a teenage daughter and I am always worried about something like this happening.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11379142829854106908noreply@blogger.com