tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post4743628397158390982..comments2024-03-27T07:28:03.309-05:00Comments on Ziggy's Blog: TEEN TRENDS - BULLYINGLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06864977144460701741noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-30418944193766962602022-10-10T01:48:04.683-05:002022-10-10T01:48:04.683-05:00replica gucci a22 d2z43y7x86 bags replica gucci y...<a href="https://www.dolabuy.ru/luggage-c-157_315_320/replica-celine-pink-nano-luggage-bag-in-drummed-calfskin-p-2848.html" rel="nofollow"><strong>replica gucci a22</strong></a> d2z43y7x86 <a href="https://www.dolabuy.ru/tote-c-157_306_368/buy-replica-ysl-yves-saint-laurent-rive-gauche-large-tote-bag-printed-canvas-p-3925.html" rel="nofollow"><strong>bags replica gucci y21</strong></a> e8d34p4h14 <a href="https://www.dolabuy.ru/dauphine-c-157_158_374/buy-replica-louis-vuitton-dauphine-m59361-2022-leather-bags-p-5322.html" rel="nofollow"><strong>good quality replica bags x35</strong></a> p9n59a8v74datecethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07825216323588809072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-16434937002486650012022-05-07T05:05:11.819-05:002022-05-07T05:05:11.819-05:00replica bags supplier replica bags toronto repli...<a href="https://letol51717.blogspot.com/2022/05/neither-ehrlichs-campaign-nor-his.html" rel="nofollow">replica bags supplier</a> <a href="https://teyndoez10032.blogspot.com/2022/05/jeanette-madsen-uses-large-blazer.html" rel="nofollow">replica bags toronto</a> <a href="https://serism26571.blogspot.com/2022/05/he-was-arrested-on-suspicion-of.html" rel="nofollow">replica bags australia</a>slelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08357999917833738798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-80931688169212521132016-11-04T12:52:45.929-05:002016-11-04T12:52:45.929-05:00I love this blog! I've been struggling with be...I love this blog! I've been struggling with being bullied ever since I started high-school and your blog has shed some light on it for me.<br />Zanna Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03107826462787708712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-57952718068967555082015-10-25T02:02:20.858-05:002015-10-25T02:02:20.858-05:00We are at an age that staying connected is easier ...We are at an age that staying connected is easier than ever with smart phones that we can literally carry around Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, email and the like with us wherever we go. This is a tremendous opportunity to keep in touch with people but when not used correctly it can become a trap. One way in which smart phones and apps can become a trap is when children are bullied over social media. After learning more about groupthink and stereotypes, bullying can be such a problem because people form a stereotype in their mind and won’t give the person or group a chance. Groupthink is when people are afraid to disagree or make a stand for fear of becoming the outcast. However, ignoring the problem supports it and this can be dangerous for kids. While I think social media is so cool and useful to stay connected, it can be precarious for students who are being bullied over it because it is so assessable all day long. McKenzie Hugheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16118042222648567927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-83430835070371203712014-06-24T22:13:40.730-05:002014-06-24T22:13:40.730-05:00This blog is very interesting, because the content...This blog is very interesting, because the content that is shared in this community really helps both the young who suffer from this problem than the parents of the victims. Also I think that this topic should end the bullying in schools soon because we all have the same rights, so everyone should take as brothers, because everything in life goes around and comes back to us what we give, that's why the appearance isn't most important than the happiness of people or the money that they have and we focus more on having good relationships with others because it is the only thing that we need to be happy.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10355782388989454690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-61543680396066649392014-01-05T15:24:27.522-06:002014-01-05T15:24:27.522-06:00A few suggestions.
1. Never ignore bullying; it ...A few suggestions. <br /><br />1. Never ignore bullying; it only gets worse, increases, and reinforces vulnerability and weakness. <br /><br />2. If you are a boy, learn to fight and do it reasonably well. Talk to a family friend who knows how to fight. Work on your skills on a daily basis. Fighting is a skill just like math, science or a foreign language and at least as important as them. Head-butting can be effective, and the small bones at the top of the foot and shin can be sensitive areas. <br /><br />3. Don't worry about school records, etc, those are small things compared with the sadness and consequence of bullying. <br /><br />4. While things have improved, don't count on schools or teachers to help. Teachers distinguish high-priority items (salaries, tenure, and medical reimbursement) with low-priority items such as protecting children. <br /><br />5. Kids will be pretty fair. If there is a fight, generally onlookers will let it happen. Kids usually don't report others. While I was unpopular and the kid I fought in a classroom was likewise, when we started a fight in a class and the teacher threatened to take action against everyone in the class, no one told. <br /><br />6. Boys should improve social skills. Listen, be a part of the group, smile, learn social skills. If you do make a negative comment about someone, you probably will have to back it up; don't make the comment if you aren't prepared to fight. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-69041037960678902902013-09-10T23:46:34.380-05:002013-09-10T23:46:34.380-05:00Hi,
This is a well written post.
Children are le...Hi,<br /><br />This is a well written post.<br /><br />Children are lets say, "Blank Slates" when they are born. The way that they act and behave in certain situations is because of what they saw and what they were taught while growing up. Its Behavioral Psychology; or lack of, by the parents and authority figures. <br /><br />If a young child does something "mean"(Lets just say they cuss at an adult) and if the parents think it's "cute", the child will learn that it is okay to do that. <br /> <br />Some children do not get enough punishment these days and are given basically given a "free pass" from their parents to do as they please. Which may even lead to deviant behavior by the child. This is where the bullying comes in. The children who were never properly taught right from wrong will do what they want, when they want while in school. <br /><br />Teachers and students rarely interfere with this act of deviance. It seems that if an individual takes control and gains power, then others will follow - As in the bullying. It is like what Soloman Ash studied, his studies show that the individual(person being bullied) will never/rarely go against the group(the bullies). Students are basically conforming to fit into their surroundings! <br /><br />Another psychologist; Stanley Milgram, studied that people can and will do things even if it goes against their morals when a higher power tells them to do so. The students that feel this way and still participate in the bullying will say that they "were just following the crowd" or "everyone else was doing it". This to shows that students will conform to fit in.<br /><br />What kids will do so that they will fit in or not be the next target...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-51162689600484171722013-08-16T12:40:39.078-05:002013-08-16T12:40:39.078-05:00Thanks for posting this, it's really helpful! ...Thanks for posting this, it's really helpful! People don't realise that bullying is not a joking matter, and however bad your own life is you shouldn't be taking it out on other people, it doesn't help you or them! I found <a href="http://teenageadviceandhelp.com" rel="nofollow">teenage bullying advice website</a> very helpful, as it is written by a teenager who has been through that herself.Jesshttp://teenageadviceandhelp.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-68868103696586993352013-05-14T12:51:24.558-05:002013-05-14T12:51:24.558-05:00Ziggy,
Thank you for caring for the voice of other...Ziggy,<br />Thank you for caring for the voice of others. People need to know that bullying is never okay! Its good to always have a friend to talk to in dire need, and your that person(: You are truly beautiful. Maddy Cook<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-32643741558316753042013-05-03T15:58:33.834-05:002013-05-03T15:58:33.834-05:00This a great and very informative post. I have don...This a great and very informative post. I have done a couple essays this semester on teenage bullying and the effects it can have on a person. There are many different types of bullying, not always just the typical hitting or pushing. Teens actually commit suicide sometimes over being bullied. With social media and the internet it is much easier these days to bully someone. Cyber bullying is becoming much more common today and is only getting worse. We need to stress the importance of this to all of our children.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11632336876469486832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-41264324702895684592012-08-02T07:34:29.153-05:002012-08-02T07:34:29.153-05:00Thanks for giving us this useful info. Makes me sa...Thanks for giving us this useful info. Makes me sad that the first reason listed for bullying is that kids may think it makes them popular. So sad - what an abuse of power!<br />Leigh<br />www.oneandoneequalstwinfun.comLeigh @ OneandOneEqualsTwinFunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09171331192583405180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-88106747063180904542012-08-01T20:30:32.270-05:002012-08-01T20:30:32.270-05:00You always have great articles:) I wonder if the ...You always have great articles:) I wonder if the cyber bullying, and just the nature of less accountability online has increased bullying?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17375498089073335134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-43370985219506402942012-08-01T15:57:16.830-05:002012-08-01T15:57:16.830-05:00wonderfully written post about a very meaningful t...wonderfully written post about a very meaningful topic--I try to stay on top of what happening with my kids-their school has a VERY good "NO BULLYING" program and both my kids are very involved.ReviewsSheRotehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12097083828095846499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-30339569928835793282012-08-01T15:46:00.013-05:002012-08-01T15:46:00.013-05:00This is a really great article. My daughter had a...This is a really great article. My daughter had a bout with bullying and it was a really, really hard time for her to go through. No matter what we say, they still FEEL everything that is going on so deeply.mail4roseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17850985344834209198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-49792850293388097782012-08-01T15:38:22.284-05:002012-08-01T15:38:22.284-05:00Wow. Bless you for bringing this issue to our atte...Wow. Bless you for bringing this issue to our attention. I think we should be talking about this as often as possible. You shared some sad but true information, and I will be bookmarking and referencing this (you) in future posts. I really pray that awareness will bring healing and more FOCUS to what is happening around the world. I hope somehow, by putting our heads together, adults can bring peace into the school, instead of children alienating, intimidating, and being hateful toward their classmates,<br />THanks again!<br />RhondaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-39142278479312986982012-08-01T14:00:57.221-05:002012-08-01T14:00:57.221-05:00Thanks for addressing such a vital topic! I was b...Thanks for addressing such a vital topic! I was bullied, but I also finished highschool 20 years ago - and it's only gotten worse!<br /><br />I remember going back to my school to visit a favourite teacher a couple of years ago. As I waited in the office, I read the new code of conduct, which included "I will not bring my firearm to class". Now, this is in Canada, where we don't typically have firearms we could bring! <br /><br />When I finally located my teacher, I found a bitter man. The kids, more than the system, had done him in. Really sad!Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03353235508124155446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-58582573561733267222012-02-13T15:11:42.630-06:002012-02-13T15:11:42.630-06:00This is a great article. I have a son who was bull...This is a great article. I have a son who was bullied, people calling him names and pick on him. I was relieved to find that there was a lot of helpful information out there like http://onlineceucredit.com/edu/social-work-ceus . It offers great tips for parents to help end their teen's bullying.Alana Whiternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-58790826621789211972011-10-15T15:53:36.033-05:002011-10-15T15:53:36.033-05:00What a powerful article! My husband was bullied in...What a powerful article! My husband was bullied in school and had to be home schooled for a year because of it. His little brother was also bullied for a time. My Son was bullied last year. It is very real and very dangerous. Thankfully we were able to restrict my son's interaction with the kid who was bullying him; but it makes it difficult for a child who just wants to make friends and enjoy school. <br /><br />I often worry that my children will be bullied later in their years as well as children are learning to be more and more petty and mean at younger ages, so I'm preparing now in case the day comes that I will have to homeschool my children for a year or two to ensure that they are SAFE. <br /><br />I have my children tell me anytime someone from school does anything to them and we sit and have a discussion about what was done, why it was wrong and a better way the situation could have been handled. I always make a point to ensure that they understand that the bullying is WRONG, that they are worth a lot and are very loved. And then we try to devise a plan to help keep them from being bullied in the future. <br /><br />thankfully we have only had to deal with MILD bullying.<br /><br />I enjoyed visiting from VB's Parent's event. <br /><a href="http://www.jadelouisedesigns.com" rel="nofollow"> JadeLouise Designs</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15749906092285024917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-12410780547444695822011-10-15T13:21:36.581-05:002011-10-15T13:21:36.581-05:00I forgot about how girls bully too. I hated the ru...I forgot about how girls bully too. I hated the rumors and gossip that would go around and just like you say, it was the worst when I was 10 or so. I have a while to go before I have to worry about bullies, but it's good to know what to watch out for. Oh, and found you on the VoiceBoks 'Parenthood' event. Thanks!Truth Mamahttp://truthmama.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-55450705915353253472011-03-10T17:36:45.250-06:002011-03-10T17:36:45.250-06:00Great article/website! Nowadays bullying can happe...Great article/website! Nowadays bullying can happen anywhere and because the internet is becoming a main source of communication it is also becoming a main cause of bullying! It saddens me to think that above all the pressures of being a young student and learning to adjust to the overwhelming pressures of everyday life such as school work, finding a source of income, applying to collages, peer pressure, and to top it off trying to fit in the stereotype of "cool". To me being "cool" consists of being different, unique and having the potential of standing up for what is right and not settling for what may be "cool" at that moment. In a young mind it is very common to do things on impulse unaware that serious consequences can accrue down the road. For me it was always very important to consider other peoples feelings and when being a witness to bullying never allowing it to reach its full potential. During high school I witnessed many bullying incidents and made it clear that these victims have feelings and different intentions and we need to learn to accept people for who they are because America was built on diversity and freedom of expressing oneself so who are "you" to speak upon someone else’s looks, clothes, friends, personality, or love interest? Like a snowflake NO two people are alike so lets learn to embrace the beauty in being different!<br /><br />If anyone is being a victim of bullying please know there is help! Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem! and remember "10 years from now it wont matter the shoes you wore or the friends you had what will matter is the person you become!"<br /><br />visit: www.lexzpryde.com and download my anti-bullying song: 'Perfect Creation'<br />Thanks,<br />LexzLexz Prydehttp://lexzpryde.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-57039052900625345812011-01-28T08:39:34.366-06:002011-01-28T08:39:34.366-06:00Thanks for good stuff.Thanks for good stuff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8895606741394897777.post-24016681231651457322010-12-29T14:01:35.885-06:002010-12-29T14:01:35.885-06:00Plain living and high thinking.
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